Stop sitting on the Sidelines.....
- andrea6822
- 6 days ago
- 2 min read
A man I chatted with in 2022.
A woman I last spoke to in 2019.
And another woman I barely remember from 2018.
What’s the weird part? When I asked how their dating life was going, the answer was universally the same: Nowhere.
And when I asked, "What’s changed?" The response? Nothing.
(Just to clarify—none of these folks were ever clients. Just those quick 15-minute chats to see if I could help. Spoiler: I could’ve helped them.)
So, what’s the deal?
As I’m talking to each of them, I’m thinking, Ms. 2017, that’s eight years wasted. Eight! Just sitting on the bench. I’d get it if they’d been busy with big life changes—sick parents, an unexpected move, a surprise pet llama that needed attention—but nope. Just... crickets.
I even thought maybe they saw me on a talk show or a podcast promoting my new book.
Nope. Nothing that exciting.
Same old story. And their excuses? Well, let’s just say they were more creative than convincing.
Each one still wanted a relationship—preferably one with marriage potential or an exclusive long-term relationship.
Now, here’s the kicker: I’ve played my fair share of sports. And I’ll never forget my high school basketball coach—Audrey. She was basically Tony Robbins, but with a whistle. She didn’t let me sit on the bench. Nope, she got me out there, fired up, and ready to play every single game. She was tough, direct, and totally brought out my best.
And that’s exactly what many of these people—and probably many of you—need: accountability, a cheerleader, and a dating coach who knows how to get you off the bench and into the game.
So, what’s really holding you back? The most important investment you’ll ever make is in the partner you choose. That person will shape your life and happiness. Whether you’re 40, 32, 70, or 61, you’ve got a lot of living left to do—and a great relationship can make it even better.
So, stop waiting. Call me. Or hire someone else who actually sparks something in you. Just get moving. Don’t waste another year. Or eight.
The secret to a happy, healthy life? Great friends—and an even greater relationship.
Get off the bench, and let’s make things happen.
Happy Dating!
Love,
Andrea
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